Tommy Orlando Doesn’t Advertise

7 01 2008

Made a comment a few days ago about how I don’t dress like a pimp. There are two reasons for this:

1. I don’t advertise. – When I walk into a room, the people there feel my confidence and energy. I don’t need to use stunts like a loud introduction or crazy clothing.

Look, if you want to get high-caliber women, you’ve got to dress nice, but that doesn’t mean you need to look like something out of a blaxploitation movie or Motley Crue video.

2. Clothing should reflect who you are. – If you’re looking to upgrade your wardrobe, good for you. As I mentioned above, to get a high-caliber women, one who takes care of herself, you need to look like you also take care of yourself.

But… Just because a certain style works for somebody, doesn’t mean it will work for you.

Women can spot something fake a mile away. Clothing needs to be a reflection of who you are, not who somebody else is.

Think of clothing, or your style, like this… You are who you are. You can change that, sure, but even if you do, you want something that exaggerates your personality…something that holds a megaphone to it and makes things 1000x louder.

Think about how women do it with physical appearance. If they’re got great breasts, they’ll often wear a shirt which compliments that aspect. And if they’ve got a great backside, tight jeans will make sure you don’t miss it.

Your “style” when it comes to clothing, or anything really, should follow the same concept. Not only do you want to accentuate your best physical attributes, but you also want to wear (or drive, or live in) something which allows you to best be who you are.

If a pimp suit works for you and is a reflection on who you are, go for it. But don’t think you have to go off the deep end when it comes to clothes. As I mentioned at the beginning of this post, when I walk into a room, the people there feel my confidence and energy. For me, a pimp suit would take away from that.


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8 01 2008
Sindy

You are so right! Not only can women sense when a guy is being fake, but there is nothing worse than coming across a guy who is obviously copying someone else’s style (be an actor, a musician, whomever). It can be hard to know what your own personal style is, but in the long run, it is so important to take the time to find out what it is.

8 02 2008
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