The Return of Tommy Orlando

I guess the fact that I haven’t posted for a month is yet more evidence that I don’t advertise.

And speaking of people who don’t advertise…

Not that I’m really involved in the “seduction scene” or whatever you want to call it, but I know a bit about its history.

Things for guys who are interested in this have changed over the last few years. The whole thing a few years ago was about guys who were trying to better themselves…and everything centered around that. For example, maybe somebody was doing well with his job, but he needed a bit of help on the relationship end. So groups of guys would get together and help him out, teaching him what they had learned over trial and error.

And if you wanted to find out about this stuff, you had to search it out.

Then some of these guys, you know who they are, came along with books by big publishers, or television shows, and that changed everything. And the “community” became flooded with people who thought the whole thing was about getting laid.

Well, I’m here to tell you that “seduction” and everything that goes with it is about a lot more than “getting laid.” Sure, that can be part of it, but this isn’t just about mind games and tricks to get your wick wet.

About where I’ve been…

I’m adding a couple of more volumes to my “Player’s Handbook” series. In these volumes, I’ll be going deeper into seduction and what it really is.

Some of the feedback on Volume 1 and 2 is that it’s just basic stuff. And some guys get pissed off that I’m not giving out setups that you can walk into a club and use right out of the box.

First of all, the “basic” stuff is the foundation that you need to build on things. To use a bodybuilding analogy, you can’t lift the heavy weights until you’ve able to life the lighter ones.

You see, that’s part of the problem with the new found popularity of seduction. You’ve got guys who want to do this stuff right away. If there are 10 girls in the room, they want to be able to pick up 9 of them…on first attempt.

It’s not that easy. Guys like me just make it appear that way.

And as far as the people looking for me to provide them setups which they can take straight from the book into the club, that’s not effective. For one, women are individuals. A true pickup artist is able to create this stuff on the fly, tailoring it to the woman he is dealing with at the time. Canned “pickup lines” don’t work.

Trust me…if you stick with this blog, you’re going to start to understand all this. I’ve made it my personal goal to bring back the “old school” seduction community and everything around doing that is going to start right here at TommyOrlando.com.

Seduction Techniques of Tommy Orlando

Have had a few comments asking more about my techniques and philosophy on meeting women and seduction. Is there a name for the process? Do the techniques have names?

To be completely honest with you, I’ve never thought about either of these things. I’m a guy, much like you, who enjoys the company of women. I got where I am right now, with the blog, the books, and an occasional workshop, because people saw what I was doing, how well it worked for me, and told their friends. It’s all happened because people have come to me. Unlike a lot of the seduction “gurus” out there, I’m not a marketing guy interested in cashing in on you.

I’m not motivated by ego. I’ve got no problems with folks who want to go on television, either for an interview or a reality show, but it’s just not my style. I do this because I love women, not because I want to be some kind of celebrity, or legend in my own mind.

I don’t have a “lair.” I don’t dress like a pimp. And I don’t have a funny nickname.

“Game” is what we call it, but it’s anything but that. This is an adult lifestyle, not something for kids.

With that said, I do enjoy helping people and have been encouraged to set up a mailing list to keep in touch with people interested in meeting women and seduction. I am in the process of making that happen now, so watch for something shortly.

Hope you’re off to a great year!

Players are Getting Played

Some of the stuff I’m seeing within the “Seduction Community” is so bad that it’s mind-blowing. Makes me wonder if these guys are just marketing people, trying to cash in on dateless guys online, because they’re surely not getting any dates with the crap advice they’re giving.

If you want a funny nickname and a list of “props” to help your approach and presentation, go to Clown College. If you want real life advice from a guy who is actually in the field, and chooses the game over celebrity, stick around…

Welcome to the Player’s Club!

Welcome, Players.

This is my online home, where I’ll teach you all my pickup and seduction techniques. You’ve read my book, now it’s time to get down to business here, with the really advanced stuff that my publishing company thought was “too hot” to put in a paperback.

I’ll take you in the field with me and show you how I have as many women as I want, as much sex as I want, and more. Think “National Geographic” but Tommy-style. In other words, I’m not going to take you on a safari or for a hike in the mountains…unless there are hot chicks there.

So suit up, Players. Grab your favorite beverage and let’s talk about how to make some panties drop.